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01
How to Make a Perfect Negroni: A Complete Guide
Dec 11, 2025
02
Navigating Transitions: The Power of Personal Rituals
Oct 23, 2025
03
AI-Powered Shutdown Ritual: Automating Cal Newport's End-of-Day Routine
Oct 14, 2025
04
Project-Based Bonding: How Rebuilding a Mini Cooper Rebuilt My Relationship With My Son
Sep 24, 2025
05
Technology & Human Connection
Sep 16, 2025
06
From Square One to Sustainable Creativity: Building Systems That Prevent Starting Over
Sep 9, 2025
07
The Practical Path to AI Integration: A Levi Strauss Approach
Aug 27, 2025
08
Digital Life Design
Aug 20, 2025
09
The Empathy Advantage: Why Human-Centered Leadership Drives Results
Aug 11, 2025
10
Finding Your True North: The Journey to Authentic Values
Jul 31, 2025
11
The Productive Friction: Finding Balance Between Analog Constraints and Digital Freedom
Jul 22, 2025
12
Learning to Create Better Puzzles: A Birthday Scavenger Hunt Story
Jul 15, 2025
13
The Art of Delegation: How to Empower Your Team and Free Up Your Time
Jun 30, 2025
14
My Journey to Embracing Conflict
Jun 23, 2025
15
My Journey from Tech Resistance to Embrace: How Reluctance Became Transformation
Jun 16, 2025
16
Leadership Philosophy
Feb 14, 2025
17
The Creative Power of Limitations: Why Constraints Set Us Free
Feb 1, 2025
18
Planning Like a Dungeon Master
Jun 19, 2024
19
Transitions Despite Emotions
Jun 17, 2024
20
The Distraction of Tools
Jun 15, 2024
21
Hard Conversations = Love
Jun 14, 2024
22
Audio Book Practice
May 16, 2024
23
Underestimated, The Wisdom and Power of Teenage Girls - Book Report
Apr 24, 2024
24
Layers of Complexity
Feb 27, 2024
25
Complex Reality
Feb 26, 2024
26
Meaning Behind EveryDay Objects
Feb 15, 2024
27
What Delegation Is and Isn't
Feb 14, 2024
28
When Hesitation Isn't Helpful
Feb 13, 2024
29
Weightlifting as Meditation
Feb 12, 2024
30
The Overwhelming Appeal of Everyday Carry (EDC)
Feb 8, 2024
31
Emergency Preparedness
Feb 7, 2024
32
Google is Theory, and Theory Will Only Get You So Far
Feb 6, 2024
33
Dirty Hands
Feb 5, 2024
34
Anger
Feb 1, 2024
35
Consistency > Intensity
Jan 31, 2024
36
Learn to Love the Process
Jan 30, 2024
37
The Important Transition into Art Critique
Jan 29, 2024
38
Photo Friday
Jan 26, 2024
39
It's Like Going to Church to Me.
Jan 25, 2024
40
Leadership is Like Parenting, But Not in The Way You Think
Jan 24, 2024
41
My Judgement Gets in My Way
Jan 23, 2024
42
Living in the Time  of the Super-Specialist
Jan 22, 2024
43
Photo Friday 1.19.24
Jan 19, 2024
44
Taking On or Passing Along Energy
Jan 18, 2024
45
Knowledge Isn’t Enough
Jan 17, 2024
46
Working in Data
Jan 16, 2024
47
Defining Myself with Objects
Jan 15, 2024
48
Photo Friday 1.12.24
Jan 12, 2024
49
Writing as a Magic Wand
Jan 11, 2024
50
Consumption Turns Me Into Someone Else
Jan 10, 2024
51
Addiction = distraction
Jan 9, 2024
52
That feeling that resonates
Jan 8, 2024
53
Wanting to be in the calendar
Jan 5, 2024
54
Calendar of Perspective
Jan 4, 2024
55
Calenaring Ratios
Jan 3, 2024
56
Extreme Changes or Bust
Jan 2, 2024
57
Quality Matters
Dec 29, 2023
58
Craving Work, Fulfillment, and Being Done
Aug 17, 2023
59
The Stories We Tell Ourselves
Aug 12, 2023
60
Purpose Driven
Aug 8, 2023
61
The Power of Story
Aug 7, 2023
62
Why Learn Design...Even if you're not an Designer
Aug 5, 2023
63
Social Interactions Post-Pandemic
Aug 4, 2023
64
Process is Better than Outcome
Aug 3, 2023
65
There is Never "A" Solution
Aug 2, 2023
66
The Role of Discipline
Aug 1, 2023
67
Endings: from order to disorder
Aug 14, 2022
68
Frame and Compassion
Apr 7, 2022
69
Outcome and Process Independent
Jan 11, 2022
70
Embracing Detachment and Becoming Present
Jan 9, 2022
71
April 10, 2021
Oct 7, 2021
72
Response to Bukowski
Sep 27, 2021
73
Playing it Safe - A Bukowski Warning
Sep 18, 2021
74
Remembering 9/11
Sep 12, 2021
75
I'm 37. I'm not old
Sep 10, 2021
76
A Softer Shadow
Sep 8, 2021
77
So, I've been thinking about...
Sep 7, 2021
78
Pandemic Time
Aug 20, 2021
79
Goodbye, Things
Jul 16, 2021
80
March 8, 2021
Jun 16, 2021
81
Consolations of Philosophy
May 28, 2021
82
January 2021 - Values
May 28, 2021
83
David Chang's Eat A Peach
May 14, 2021
84
Craft and iPhone Repair
May 23, 2020
85
To The High School Class of 2020: Do NOT take a gap year.
May 11, 2020
86
Thank You, Newport Beach
Dec 21, 2017
87
Right Here. Right Now. Halloween 2017
Nov 1, 2017
88
Developing a Studio Practice
Oct 26, 2017
89
The Untapped Potential of Mind-Mapping
Oct 12, 2017
90
How I Unexpectedly Prepared to Interview
Oct 5, 2017
91
Right here. Right now. 9/28 7:00 pm
Sep 29, 2017
92
From Millennial Impatience to Mastery
Sep 21, 2017
93
Home Made Ramen Noodles
Sep 14, 2017
94
Getting Out of My Social Situations
Sep 7, 2017
95
Right here. Right now. August 2017
Aug 29, 2017
96
I am Scared to Start
Aug 3, 2017
97
Right here. Right now.  July 2017
Jul 19, 2017
98
June 24, 2017 10:00 pm
Jun 28, 2017
99
My Sonicare Time Management Hack
Jun 22, 2017
100
Money Shows Value
Jun 15, 2017
101
Raising Kids with a Sense of Purpose
Jun 9, 2017
102
Right here. Right now.  May 31, 7:05 pm
Jun 1, 2017
103
Mo Money, Mo Problems....I'll Take the Problems
May 25, 2017
104
Getting Present...with Dance?
May 19, 2017
105
Style is Everything
May 8, 2017
106
My Fear of the Unknown and Potential Success
Apr 28, 2017
107
Parenting is Rough
Apr 18, 2017
108
April 10, 11:47 AM
Apr 11, 2017
109
The Liberation of Getting Out of My Head
Apr 11, 2017
110
Getting Things Done is Boring
Apr 4, 2017
111
I'm a Maker Dottie...a Rebel
Mar 28, 2017
112
Right here. Right now.  March 23, 2017 at 1:07 PM
Mar 24, 2017
113
Organization is the Key to Everything!
Mar 21, 2017
114
I Don't Need Anyone's Permission
Mar 16, 2017
115
The Benefit of Rituals
Mar 8, 2017
116
Time Management is Bull S#!%
Mar 2, 2017
117
The Valuable Lesson I Learned from the 2017 Best Picture Fiasco
Mar 1, 2017
118
I am a Borrower of Truth.
Feb 27, 2017
119
That Time A Little Old Lady Made Me Cry
Feb 22, 2017
120
How I Learned to Stop Caring and Just Love Myself
Feb 15, 2017
121
Uhhh...I Didn't Know That Skeleton Was In Here
Feb 9, 2017
122
Financial Literacy is Important
Jan 24, 2017
123
I Sure Hope I'm A Good Dad.
Jan 19, 2017
124
I've Been Too Busy To Be Present
Jan 12, 2017
125
It's Time to get some Mise En Place.
Jan 11, 2017
126
My Positive Attitude Has Screwed Me
Jan 9, 2017
127
Donald Trump and the Power I Give to Others
Dec 28, 2016
128
Social Media Makes Me Special
Nov 13, 2016
129
I Will No Longer Rely On Your Opinions
Nov 3, 2016
130
Yes, And...My Marriage.
Oct 26, 2016
131
Leaning into the Creative Process
Oct 12, 2016
132
Faith Crisis and Blue Like Jazz
Aug 31, 2016
133
Mike Tyson, A Case Study
Jul 10, 2016
134
Meeting Masculine Standards
May 18, 2016

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